Reference List Builder

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name: reference-list-builder
description: Format professional references properly and prepare reference materials
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# Reference List Builder

## When to Use This Skill

Use this skill when the user:
- Needs to create a professional reference list
- Wants help choosing the right references
- Needs to format references properly
- Is preparing references for job applications
- Mentions: "references", "reference list", "professional references", "reference check"

## Core Capabilities

- Format professional reference lists
- Guide reference selection strategy
- Prepare reference briefing materials
- Anticipate reference check questions
- Handle difficult reference situations
- Coordinate reference outreach

## Reference Strategy

### Who Makes a Good Reference?

**Ideal References:**
- Former direct managers (most important)
- Senior colleagues who observed your work
- Cross-functional partners
- Clients or customers
- Direct reports (for leadership roles)
- Professors or advisors (for recent graduates)

**Reference Hierarchy:**
1. **Most Valuable:** Recent direct supervisor
2. **Very Valuable:** Senior leaders who know your work
3. **Valuable:** Peers and cross-functional partners
4. **Acceptable:** Clients, vendors, professors
5. **Avoid:** Friends, family, HR contacts only

### Who to Avoid

- ❌ Current employer (without permission)
- ❌ People who barely know you
- ❌ References from 10+ years ago only
- ❌ Personal friends (unless specified)
- ❌ People who might give lukewarm feedback
- ❌ Anyone you haven't contacted in advance

## Reference List Format

See `references/templates.md` for a worked example of the standard format.

### Information to Include

**Required:**
- Full name
- Current job title
- Current company
- Phone number
- Professional email
- Your relationship to them

**Optional:**
- LinkedIn URL
- Best time to reach
- Preferred contact method

### Formatting Guidelines

- Match the style of your resume (fonts, formatting)
- 3-5 references (more only if requested)
- Separate page from resume
- Header should match resume header
- Include "References" or "Professional References" as title

## Reference Preparation

### Step 1: Ask Permission

**Before listing anyone:**
- Call or email to ask permission
- Confirm their contact information
- Explain the role you're applying for
- Gauge their willingness and enthusiasm

See `references/templates.md` for a ready-to-use permission request script.

### Step 2: Brief Your References

**Send them:**
- Copy of your resume
- Job description
- Key points you want highlighted
- Specific projects to mention
- Timeline for when they might be contacted

See `references/templates.md` for a ready-to-use briefing email template.

### Step 3: Follow Up

After references are checked:
- Thank your references regardless of outcome
- Let them know the result
- Offer to reciprocate

## Handling Special Situations

### Current Employer Doesn't Know

**Options:**
- Ask if reference check can wait until later stage
- Use colleagues who've left the company
- Be upfront: "My current employer doesn't know I'm looking"
- Use other professional references

### Manager Left the Company

**Options:**
- Track them down on LinkedIn
- Use their personal email/phone
- Include their new company in reference list
- Explain "Former manager, now at [New Company]"

### Bad Relationship with Past Manager

**Options:**
- Use another supervisor from that role
- Use senior colleagues instead
- Choose references from different roles
- Be prepared to explain if asked

### Limited Professional Experience

**Options:**
- Professors or academic advisors
- Internship supervisors
- Volunteer organization leaders
- Coaches or mentors
- Client contacts

### Reference Won't Give Positive Review

**Don't use them.** It's better to have fewer references than a lukewarm or negative one.

## What Reference Checkers Ask

### Common Questions

**Performance:**
- "How would you describe [name]'s work?"
- "What were their primary responsibilities?"
- "How did they perform against expectations?"

**Skills:**
- "What are their greatest strengths?"
- "What areas could they improve?"
- "How would you rate their [specific skill]?"

**Work Style:**
- "How did they handle pressure/deadlines?"
- "How did they work with the team?"
- "How did they handle conflict?"

**Character:**
- "Would you rehire them?"
- "Is there anything else I should know?"
- "How do they compare to peers?"

### The "Would You Rehire?" Question

**Most important question.** Brief your references that this may be asked and ensure they can answer enthusiastically.

See `references/templates.md` for a fill-in reference list template.

## Reference Timing

### When to Provide References

- **Don't include with initial application** (unless requested)
- **Bring to interview** (have them ready)
- **Provide when asked** (usually after final interview)
- **Always ask before sharing** (confirm permission each time)

### Common Timeline

1. **Application:** "References available upon request" (optional on resume)
2. **First Interview:** Have list ready but don't offer
3. **Final Rounds:** "Can you provide references?" → Share list
4. **Reference Check:** Company contacts your references
5. **Offer:** Follow up with references, thank them

## Output Format

Report reference strategy (target role/company), recommended primary and backup references (each with title, company, contact, relationship, why, and talking points), briefing notes (what to send, key points to emphasize), and drafted reference outreach (permission script, briefing email, thank-you template).

See `references/templates.md` for the ready-to-fill output template.

## Reference Checklist

- ✅ Have 3-5 references ready
- ✅ All references have given permission
- ✅ Contact information is current and accurate
- ✅ References know about the specific role
- ✅ Each reference has your resume and talking points
- ✅ At least one direct supervisor included
- ✅ References span different aspects of your work
- ✅ References are enthusiastic (not just willing)
- ✅ Backup references identified
- ✅ Thank you notes planned

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## Related Skills

| Skill | When to apply |
|-------|--------------|
| `resume-tailor` | Align talking points sent to references with tailored resume |
| `job-description-analyzer` | Identify which skills references should emphasize for this role |
| `interview-prep-generator` | Anticipate reference check questions and brief accordingly |
| `pdf-proof` | Proofread the formatted reference list before sending |