School Choice Decision

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name: school-choice-decision
description: "Choose the right school for a specific child by weighing what actually matters to them and your family — not just rankings. Use when asked how to choose a school, compare schools for my kid, which school is best, or help me decide on a school. Produces a priorities profile for this child, a comparison of the options on the factors that matter (fit, teaching, environment, logistics, cost), the questions to ask and things to observe on visits, a weighted decision, and a note that a good fit beats a high ranking."
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# School Choice Decision

The highest-ranked school isn't automatically right for *your* kid — a shy child, a kid who needs structure, or one with a particular passion may thrive somewhere a league table rates lower. This clarifies what matters for this specific child and family, compares the real options against that, and gives you a weighted decision plus the questions to actually ask on a visit.

## What This Skill Produces

- **A child-and-family priorities profile** — this child's needs and temperament, plus family constraints (logistics, cost, values)
- **A comparison on what matters** — the options across fit, teaching quality, environment/culture, support, extracurriculars, logistics, and cost — not rankings alone
- **Visit questions & observations** — what to ask staff and notice about the students, classrooms, and culture
- **A weighted decision** — the options scored against *your* priorities, with the trade-offs made explicit
- **A fit-over-ranking reminder** — where a lower-ranked school may genuinely be the better choice for this child

## Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:
- **The child** — age, temperament, strengths, needs, any specific requirements
- **The options** — the schools/types under consideration (or a request to think through types)
- **Family priorities** — what matters most (academics, environment, values, arts/sports, logistics)
- **Constraints** — commute, cost/fees, admissions realities
- **Timeline** — application deadlines and decision date

## Framework: Fit First, Then Compare

1. **Start with the child.** Their temperament and needs (structure vs. freedom, big vs. small, particular strengths or challenges) should anchor the whole decision.
2. **Look past the ranking.** League tables measure averages, not fit — factor teaching quality and culture, but weigh them against this child's needs.
3. **Compare on real factors.** Environment, support, class size, extracurriculars, logistics, and cost often matter more day-to-day than a headline score.
4. **Visit and observe.** Give the questions to ask and the things to notice — how students behave, staff warmth, the feel of the place — which reveal more than a brochure.
5. **Decide with weights.** Score the options against the family's priorities, surface the trade-offs, and make an explicit, confident choice.

## Output Format

### School choice: child [age/temperament] · priorities [x]

**This child needs:** [structure/freedom, size, strengths, support needs].

**Compare**
| School | Fit for child | Teaching | Culture | Logistics | Cost |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|

**On visits — ask/observe:** [questions for staff · what to notice in students/classrooms/culture].
**Weighted call:** [option] — because [ties to priorities]; trade-off: [what you give up].
**Remember:** the best *fit* often beats the best ranking for a specific kid.

## Quality Checks
- [ ] Anchors on the specific child's temperament and needs
- [ ] Weighs fit and culture alongside (not just) rankings
- [ ] Compares on day-to-day factors, not headline scores only
- [ ] Provides visit questions and observations
- [ ] Delivers a weighted decision with explicit trade-offs

## Anti-Patterns
- **Choosing by ranking alone** regardless of the child.
- **Ignoring the child's temperament/needs.**
- **Brochure-level comparison** with no visit guidance.
- **Hiding the trade-offs** in a falsely clean answer.
- **Overlooking logistics/cost** that shape daily life.

## Example Trigger Phrases
- "How do I choose the right school for my daughter?"
- "Compare these two schools for my son who's quite shy."
- "Is the top-ranked school actually the best choice for my kid?"
- "What should I ask when I visit a school?"
- "Help me decide between a big school and a small one for my child."