Public Speaking Embodied

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name: public-speaking-embodied
description: >-
  Physical presence and delivery skills for public speaking and presentations. Use when someone needs to present at work, speak at an event, lead a meeting, or wants to develop commanding physical presence in group settings.
metadata:
  category: skills
  tagline: >-
    Stand, breathe, project, make eye contact, and recover from blanking — the in-the-room skills that make someone compelling.
  display_name: "Public Speaking & Physical Presence"
  submitted_by: HowToUseHumans
  last_reviewed: "2026-03-19"
  openclaw:
    requires:
      tools: [filesystem]
    install: "npx clawhub install public-speaking-embodied"
---

# Public Speaking & Physical Presence

This skill is not about slide design or speech writing. Those are important, but they're not what makes someone compelling in a room. This is about the body: how you stand, how you breathe, where you look, what your hands do, how your voice carries, and what happens when your mind goes blank in front of 50 people. Public speaking is consistently ranked as one of the most common fears, ahead of death in some surveys. The fear is physical — racing heart, shallow breathing, shaking hands, dry mouth — so the fix has to be physical too. These are trainable skills with specific techniques, not personality traits you're born with. A flat-voiced, nervous presenter using these methods will outperform a "natural" speaker who hasn't practiced them.

```agent-adaptation
# Localization note — cultural norms around speaking vary significantly
- Eye contact:
  US/Western Europe: direct eye contact signals confidence and honesty
  East Asia: prolonged direct eye contact may signal aggression or
  disrespect, especially toward elders or superiors
  Middle East: eye contact norms vary by gender and relationship
  Adapt eye contact advice to the audience's cultural context.
- Physical space and gesture:
  US: larger gestures, wider personal space on stage
  Japan: more contained gestures, less movement
  Latin America/Southern Europe: more expressive gesture is expected
  Northern Europe: understated delivery may be more persuasive
- Formality levels differ significantly:
  US tech: casual delivery is the norm (TED-style)
  Japanese business: formal delivery with specific protocols
  German business: structured, credential-first delivery
  UK: self-deprecation and understatement are persuasive
- Volume and projection norms vary. What reads as "confident" in
  one culture may read as "aggressive" in another. Calibrate.
```

## Sources & Verification

- **Toastmasters International** -- Public speaking methods, evaluation frameworks, and progressive skill development. https://www.toastmasters.org/
- **Harvard Business Review** -- Presentation research and executive communication studies. https://hbr.org/
- **Amy Cuddy, "Presence"** -- Research on body language, power posing (updated findings), and physical preparation for high-stakes situations.
- **Chris Anderson, "TED Talks: The Official TED Guide to Public Speaking"** -- Structure, delivery, and stage presence techniques.
- **Voice coaching methodology** -- Kristin Linklater, "Freeing the Natural Voice." Standard text for voice projection and resonance training.
- **Anthropic, "Labor market impacts of AI"** -- March 2026 research showing this occupation/skill area has near-zero AI exposure. https://www.anthropic.com/research/labor-market-impacts

## When to Use

- User has an upcoming presentation at work and is nervous
- User needs to speak at a wedding, funeral, or public event
- User wants to be more commanding in meetings
- User freezes or blanks when speaking in front of groups
- User is told they speak too fast, too quietly, or monotonously
- User wants to improve their stage presence
- User is preparing for a job interview that involves presenting
- User leads meetings and wants to hold the room better

## Instructions

### Step 1: Stance and grounding

**Agent action**: Teach the physical foundation that everything else builds on.

```
HOW TO STAND (this is where most people go wrong):

FEET:
- Shoulder-width apart. Not wider (you'll look like you're
  bracing for a fight), not narrower (you'll sway).
- Weight evenly distributed. Not leaning on one hip (reads as
  casual or disengaged), not rocked back on heels (reads as
  defensive), not on toes (reads as anxious).
- Both feet flat on the ground. This is called "grounding" and
  it works because it gives you a stable base and reduces the
  unconscious swaying and shifting that screams nervousness.

KNEES:
- Slightly soft. Not locked. Locked knees restrict blood flow
  and people literally faint from it on stage. It also makes
  your movement stiff and robotic.

HIPS AND SPINE:
- Pelvis neutral (not tilted forward or back).
- Spine straight but not rigid. Imagine a string pulling gently
  from the crown of your head.
- Shoulders back and down. Not up near your ears (tension) and
  not rolled forward (defeat/low energy).

HEAD:
- Chin level with the ground. Not tilted up (reads as arrogant),
  not tilted down (reads as submissive or reading notes).
- Face the audience squarely.

THE STILLNESS PRINCIPLE:
Nervous speakers pace, shift weight, rock, sway, and fidget.
Confident speakers are still when making a point, and move
with intention between points. The goal is not to be frozen —
it's to make every movement deliberate.

PRACTICE: Stand in front of a mirror in this position for 2
minutes. It will feel weird at first because most people stand
with their weight on one leg. Get used to how "grounded" feels
in your body. This is your home base on stage — the position
you return to.
```

### Step 2: Breathing for voice projection

**Agent action**: Cover diaphragmatic breathing and its connection to voice power and nerve management.

```
DIAPHRAGMATIC BREATHING (the foundation of projection and calm):

Most nervous speakers breathe from their chest — shallow,
rapid breaths that produce a thin, quiet voice and amplify
anxiety. Effective speakers breathe from the diaphragm — deep,
controlled breaths that produce a resonant, projected voice
and actively calm the nervous system.

HOW TO FIND DIAPHRAGMATIC BREATHING:
1. Place one hand on your chest, one on your belly.
2. Breathe in through your nose. Your belly should push out.
   Your chest should barely move.
3. Breathe out through your mouth. Your belly comes back in.
4. If your chest is rising and your belly isn't, you're breathing
   from the wrong place. Lie on your back on the floor — your
   body naturally shifts to diaphragmatic breathing when supine.
   Practice there until you can replicate it standing.

BREATHING FOR SPEAKING:
- Inhale before you speak (on the pause, not mid-sentence).
- Speak on the exhale. Your voice rides the air out.
- Never speak past the end of your breath. Running out of air
  mid-sentence makes you sound strained and gasping. Stop.
  Breathe. Continue.
- Aim for 4-6 breaths per minute while speaking (vs. 12-20
  normally). This requires practice but dramatically changes
  your vocal quality and your physical calm.

PRE-SPEECH BREATHING (do this 5 minutes before you speak):
1. Find a private space (bathroom, hallway, your car).
2. Box breathing: inhale for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts,
   exhale for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts. Repeat 5 times.
3. This activates the parasympathetic nervous system and
   physically lowers your heart rate.

THE PHYSIOLOGICAL SIGH (fastest anxiety reset):
1. Double inhale through the nose: one full breath in, then
   one more quick sip of air on top of it.
2. Long, slow exhale through the mouth.
3. One cycle of this measurably reduces heart rate within
   seconds. Stanford research (Huberman Lab) confirmed this
   is the fastest known voluntary method for calming the
   autonomic nervous system.
Use this onstage if you feel panic rising. It takes 5 seconds
and no one notices.
```

### Step 3: Eye contact

**Agent action**: Cover practical eye contact techniques for different audience sizes.

```
EYE CONTACT — THE CONNECTION TOOL:

WHY IT MATTERS:
Eye contact is the primary mechanism by which a speaker connects
with an audience. Without it, you're just talking near people.
With it, you're talking to them.

SMALL GROUP (under 15 people, meetings):
- Make eye contact with each person for 3-5 seconds before
  moving to the next. Not a rapid scan — actually look at them.
- One complete thought per person. Start a sentence looking at
  one person, finish it looking at them, then shift to the next
  person for the next thought.
- Don't ignore anyone. Especially the quiet person in the corner.
  Including them with eye contact keeps them engaged.
- In hostile meetings: spend more eye contact time on allies and
  neutral parties. Reduced eye contact with a hostile person
  de-emphasizes their dominance without confrontation.

MEDIUM AUDIENCE (15-100 people):
- The triangle technique: divide the room into three sections
  (left, center, right). Rotate your eye contact between sections
  so the entire room feels included.
- Within each section, pick one person and make actual eye contact
  with them for a full sentence. Then pick someone in another
  section. The people around them will think you're looking at
  them too.
- Don't get stuck on one section. The side you ignore will
  disengage.

LARGE AUDIENCE (100+ people, auditorium):
- You can't make individual eye contact. But you can simulate it.
- Look at the tops of heads in different sections. From the
  audience's perspective, it reads as eye contact.
- Shift your gaze every 5-10 seconds between sections.
- Occasionally pick out an individual in the first few rows and
  make real eye contact. This creates warmth in the room.

WHERE NOT TO LOOK:
- The back wall (dead, disconnected)
- Your notes for more than 2 seconds at a time
- Your slides (face the audience, not the screen)
- One person exclusively (creepy, and the rest of the room
  disconnects)
- The floor (reads as shame, fear, or boredom)
```

### Step 4: Hand gestures and movement

**Agent action**: Cover what to do with hands and when to move.

```
HAND GESTURES:

REST POSITION (where your hands go when not gesturing):
- At your sides, relaxed. This feels unnatural to you but looks
  confident to the audience. Practice until it doesn't feel weird.
- OR: one hand holding the other loosely in front of you, around
  navel height. Light touch, not clasped.
- NOT: hands in pockets, arms crossed, hands behind back
  (parade rest), gripping the podium, fig leaf (both hands
  clasped over groin).

PURPOSEFUL GESTURES:
- Open palms facing up = inclusive, inviting ("Let me explain")
- Open palms facing down = calming, definitive ("The data is clear")
- Counting on fingers = organizing information (visible structure)
- Widening hands = showing scale or expansion ("This affects
  everyone")
- Bringing hands together = convergence, focus ("This is the
  key point")
- Pointing (at slides, not at people) = directing attention

SIZE YOUR GESTURES TO THE ROOM:
- Small room: gestures between your waist and shoulders
- Large room: gestures from your hips to above your head
- Camera/virtual: smaller, closer to your face. The frame
  crops everything below chest level.

NERVOUS HABITS TO ELIMINATE:
- Touching face, hair, or neck
- Clicking a pen
- Jingling coins or keys (empty your pockets before speaking)
- Adjusting clothing
- Wringing hands
- Pointing at the audience

The fix: record yourself. You won't believe your nervous habits
until you see them. Two minutes of video feedback is worth hours
of advice.

MOVEMENT ON STAGE:
- Stand still when making a key point (stillness = emphasis).
- Move to transition between topics (left to right, forward to
  back). This gives the audience a visual cue that you're
  shifting gears.
- Move toward the audience for important moments, back for
  reflection or pauses.
- Never pace. Pacing is undirected movement that reads as anxiety.
  Directed movement between specific spots reads as confidence.
- If using a podium: step away from it for key moments. The
  podium is a barrier between you and the audience.
```

### Step 5: Voice modulation

**Agent action**: Cover pace, pitch, volume, and the power of the pause.

```
VOICE VARIABLES (all four matter):

PACE:
- Conversational speaking: ~150 words per minute.
- Most nervous speakers: 180-220 wpm. Way too fast.
- Effective speakers vary between 120-170 wpm, slowing down
  for important points and speeding up slightly for energy.
- Practice: read a passage out loud and time yourself. If you
  finish a 150-word passage in under a minute, you're rushing.

PITCH:
- Your voice naturally rises when nervous (vocal cords tighten).
- Consciously relax your jaw and throat before speaking. Open
  your mouth wider than feels natural — tight jaw = thin voice.
- Speak from your chest, not your head. You'll feel the resonance
  in your sternum if you're doing it right.
- Pitch variation keeps people awake. A monotone puts them to
  sleep regardless of content. Raise pitch for questions, lower
  for declarative statements, drop notably for your key message.

VOLUME:
- Project to the back of the room, not to the front row.
  This doesn't mean shouting. It means directing your voice
  with more air support (diaphragmatic breathing).
- Drop your volume for emphasis. Counter-intuitive, but a quiet
  sentence after several loud ones pulls people in. They lean
  forward. Now you have them.
- Test: before the audience arrives, go to the back of the room
  and have someone speak from the front at the volume they plan
  to use. Adjust before you start, not after.

THE POWER OF THE PAUSE:
- Pauses are the most underused tool in public speaking.
- Pause BEFORE a key point (creates anticipation).
- Pause AFTER a key point (lets it land).
- Pause instead of saying "um" or "uh" (silence sounds
  confident; filler sounds uncertain).
- A 2-3 second pause feels eternal to you and perfect to
  the audience.
- Practice pausing by counting silently: "one one-thousand, two
  one-thousand" in your head. Two seconds is the sweet spot.

ELIMINATING FILLER WORDS (um, uh, like, so, you know):
- Record yourself and count them. Awareness is step one.
- Replace fillers with silence. Every "um" becomes a pause.
- Practice speaking in short, complete sentences. Fillers happen
  most in run-on sentences where you haven't planned the next
  clause.
- It takes 2-3 weeks of conscious practice to reduce fillers
  by 80%.
```

### Step 6: Managing nerves and recovering from blanking

**Agent action**: Cover the physical techniques for managing stage fright and what to do when your mind goes blank.

```
MANAGING NERVES:

THE REFRAME:
Your body doesn't distinguish between anxiety and excitement.
Racing heart, sweaty palms, butterflies — these are the same
physiology. Research (Alison Wood Brooks, Harvard Business School)
shows that saying "I am excited" out loud before performing
leads to measurably better outcomes than saying "I am calm."
Don't fight the adrenaline. Redirect it.

PHYSICAL TECHNIQUES:
1. Physiological sigh (described in Step 2): double inhale, long
   exhale. Use backstage or even onstage in a pause.
2. Progressive muscle tension/release: squeeze both fists hard
   for 5 seconds, release. Tense your thighs for 5 seconds,
   release. This burns off excess adrenaline.
3. Cold water on your wrists or the back of your neck: activates
   the dive reflex and lowers heart rate.
4. Arrive early and walk the space. Stand where you'll speak.
   Look at the empty chairs. Your brain processes it as familiar
   territory by the time people arrive.
5. Talk to audience members before you speak (if possible).
   It's harder to be terrified of people you just chatted with.

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU BLANK (and you will, eventually):

DO NOT PANIC. The audience doesn't know your script. They don't
know you've blanked. What feels like 30 seconds to you is 2-3
seconds to them.

RECOVERY PROTOCOL:
1. Pause. Take a breath. (This looks like a deliberate, confident
   pause to the audience.)
2. Take a sip of water. (Always have water nearby. This buys
   you 5-10 seconds that look completely natural.)
3. Restate your last point: "So, as I was saying about X..."
   This often triggers the next thought.
4. If still blank: check your notes. Glance down for 1-2 seconds
   maximum. There is no shame in notes. Every professional
   speaker uses them.
5. If you've completely lost your place: "Let me take a step
   back and make sure I'm covering the key points." Then
   summarize what you've said so far. This resets your flow.
6. If it's catastrophic: ask the audience a question. "What
   questions do you have so far?" This shifts focus to them
   and gives your brain time to recover.

The most important thing: keep going. Nobody remembers a 3-second
blank. Everyone remembers someone who froze and never recovered.
The recovery IS the skill.
```

### Step 7: Reading the room and handling Q&A

**Agent action**: Cover audience awareness and tough question handling.

```
READING THE ROOM:

SIGNS THEY'RE WITH YOU:
- Eye contact returned
- Nodding
- Leaning forward
- Taking notes
- Smiling or reacting to your content
-> Keep doing what you're doing.

SIGNS YOU'RE LOSING THEM:
- Looking at phones
- Whispering to each other
- Glazed expressions / staring past you
- Fidgeting, shifting in seats
- Arms crossed (not always disengagement, but combined with
  other signs, it's trouble)
-> Change something: ask a question, tell a story, move to a
   different part of the stage, change your volume or pace,
   skip ahead to something more engaging. If you're 20 minutes
   into a 30-minute talk and you've lost them, cut to your
   conclusion. Better to end strong and early than to bore
   people into resentment.

Q&A HANDLING:

THE BASICS:
1. Repeat the question. Always. The rest of the audience often
   didn't hear it. Also, this buys you thinking time.
2. Answer the question that was asked, not the one you wanted.
3. Keep answers to 30-60 seconds. Long Q&A answers lose the room.
4. "I don't know, but I'll find out" is always better than
   making something up. Follow up afterward.
5. End each answer by redirecting attention: "Does that address
   your question?" Then move to the next questioner.

HOSTILE QUESTIONS:
1. Don't get defensive. Defensive body language (crossing arms,
   stepping back, raising voice) signals that you feel attacked,
   which validates the attacker.
2. The bridge technique: acknowledge the question, then redirect.
   "That's an important concern. What I can tell you is..."
3. If the question is based on false premises, correct the premise
   gently: "I understand why it might look that way. Actually,
   the data shows..."
4. If someone is monopolizing Q&A: "I want to make sure we hear
   from others. Let's take your follow-up after the session."
5. If you genuinely don't have a good answer: "That's a fair
   challenge and I want to give you a real answer, not a
   deflection. Can we connect after this session?"

ENDING STRONG:
- Never end with Q&A as your last word. Q&A = unpredictable energy.
- Structure: main talk -> Q&A -> closing statement.
- "Before I close, I want to leave you with this..." (your key
  takeaway, restated in one sentence).
- Thank the audience. Make eye contact. Don't rush off stage.
  Walk off with the same deliberate energy you walked on with.
```

### Step 8: The 5-minute daily practice routine

**Agent action**: Give the user a concrete daily practice they can do in five minutes.

```
5-MINUTE DAILY PRACTICE (do this every day for 30 days):

MINUTE 1: STANCE AND BREATHING
- Stand in the grounded position (feet shoulder-width, weight
  balanced, shoulders back and down, chin level).
- 5 cycles of box breathing: inhale 4 counts, hold 4, exhale 4,
  hold 4.
- Focus on belly expanding, chest staying still.

MINUTE 2: VOICE PROJECTION
- Pick any sentence. Say it at normal volume.
- Say it again, projected to an imaginary back wall 50 feet away.
  More air, not more tension. Open your mouth wider.
- Say it a third time, dropping volume to just above a whisper.
- Notice the range you have.

MINUTE 3: PAUSE PRACTICE
- Read a paragraph from anything (news article, book).
- At every period and comma, pause for a full 2 seconds
  (count: one-one-thousand, two-one-thousand).
- This will feel absurdly slow. It will sound perfect.

MINUTE 4: EYE CONTACT AND GESTURE
- Stand in front of a mirror or phone camera.
- Deliver 30 seconds of content (can be anything — what you
  had for lunch, a work update) while maintaining eye contact
  with yourself in the mirror and using purposeful hand gestures.
- Then let your hands rest at your sides for 15 seconds while
  continuing to speak. Get used to stillness.

MINUTE 5: THE RECOVERY
- Mid-sentence, stop. Blank your mind deliberately.
- Practice the recovery: pause, breathe, sip water (mime it),
  restate your last point, continue.
- Do this 3 times. Make blanking feel routine so it's not
  terrifying when it happens for real.

AFTER 30 DAYS:
These mechanics become automatic. You stop thinking about
where your feet are and start thinking about your message.
That's when you become genuinely compelling — when technique
serves the content instead of fighting it.
```

## If This Fails

- If anxiety is so severe that these techniques aren't enough, consider a short-acting beta-blocker (propranolol) prescribed by your doctor specifically for performance anxiety. It blocks the physical symptoms (racing heart, shaking hands) without affecting cognition. Many professional musicians and speakers use them.
- If you can't practice alone, join Toastmasters. Meetings are weekly, membership is ~$50/6 months, and the feedback is structured and constructive. It's the cheapest, most effective public speaking training available.
- If virtual presentations are the challenge and these in-room techniques don't transfer, the key differences are: look at the camera lens (not the screen) for eye contact, frame yourself from chest up, improve your lighting (a $25 ring light changes everything), and speak slightly louder than feels natural because microphones compress your dynamic range.
- If English is not your first language and pronunciation anxiety is a factor, focus on pace and pausing. Speaking slowly and clearly with an accent is far more effective than speaking fast and hoping no one notices the accent.

## Rules

- Never apologize for being nervous at the start of a talk — it primes the audience to look for nervousness
- Face the audience, not the slides or the screen, at all times
- One point per slide maximum — if the slide says it all, why are you there?
- Arrive early enough to walk the space and test any technology
- Water should always be within arm's reach when speaking
- Pause before key points, not after — anticipation is more powerful than reflection

## Tips

- "Nobody cares about you as much as you think they do" is the most liberating truth in public speaking. The audience wants you to succeed. They're not waiting for you to fail.
- Record every presentation you give. Watch it once (painful but necessary). Pick one thing to improve next time. One thing. Not twelve.
- The best speakers in the world rehearse out loud. Not in their head — out loud, standing up, at full volume. This is non-negotiable preparation.
- If you're behind a podium and can choose to step out from behind it, do. The podium is a security blanket that creates distance. Distance kills connection.
- Your opening and closing are the only things most people remember. Spend 50% of your prep time on the first 30 seconds and the last 30 seconds.
- Wearing something slightly more formal than the audience puts you in a subtle authority position. Slightly. Not dramatically.

## Agent State

```yaml
public_speaking:
  user_context:
    upcoming_event: null
    audience_size: null
    speaking_frequency: null
    primary_fear: null
    experience_level: null
  skills_covered:
    stance_grounding: false
    breathing: false
    eye_contact: false
    gestures_movement: false
    voice_modulation: false
    nerve_management: false
    blank_recovery: false
    room_reading: false
    qa_handling: false
  practice:
    daily_routine_started: false
    days_completed: 0
    recording_reviewed: false
    specific_improvement_target: null
  upcoming_event:
    event_name: null
    date: null
    audience_size: null
    duration_minutes: null
    prep_sessions_completed: 0
  follow_up:
    next_practice_date: null
    toastmasters_explored: false
```

## Automation Triggers

```yaml
triggers:
  - name: upcoming_event_prep
    condition: "public_speaking.upcoming_event.date IS SET AND days_until(public_speaking.upcoming_event.date) <= 7"
    action: "Your speaking event is within a week. Let's do a prep check: Have you rehearsed out loud at least twice? Have you walked through your opening and closing? Do you know the room setup? Do you have water arranged? If not, let's focus on the highest-impact prep items now."

  - name: daily_practice_streak
    condition: "public_speaking.practice.daily_routine_started IS true AND public_speaking.practice.days_completed < 30"
    schedule: "daily"
    action: "Daily speaking practice check-in. Have you done your 5-minute routine today? You're on day [X] of 30. The mechanics become automatic around day 20-25. Keep going."

  - name: post_event_debrief
    condition: "public_speaking.upcoming_event.date IS SET AND days_since(public_speaking.upcoming_event.date) >= 0 AND days_since(public_speaking.upcoming_event.date) <= 3"
    action: "How did the presentation go? Let's debrief: What went well? What felt off? Did you blank at any point, and if so, how did you recover? Pick one specific thing to improve for next time — just one."

  - name: recording_review_nudge
    condition: "public_speaking.practice.recording_reviewed IS false AND public_speaking.user_context.speaking_frequency IS SET"
    action: "You haven't watched a recording of yourself speaking yet. This is the single most effective improvement tool. Record your next presentation (even a phone propped up works) and watch it once. Focus on: stance, filler words, eye contact, and hand gestures."

  - name: nerve_management_priority
    condition: "public_speaking.user_context.primary_fear == 'anxiety' AND public_speaking.skills_covered.nerve_management IS false"
    action: "You mentioned anxiety as your main barrier. Let's focus on the physical nerve management techniques first — breathing, the physiological sigh, and progressive muscle tension-release. These address the physiology directly and make everything else easier."
```