Show Me The Questions Im Avoiding

---
name: show-me-the-questions-im-avoiding
description: This prompt asks the AI to avoid giving advice and instead generate five probing, potentially uncomfortable self-reflection questions tailored to the user’s stated emotion and area of life. The outcome is a concise set of challenging prompts designed to surface hidden fears, assumptions, responsibilities, or desires that may be acting as the user’s real block, helping them move toward clearer understanding through introspection rather than solutions.
compatibility: Requires betterprompt >= 0.1.3
metadata:
  openclaw:
    homepage: https://github.com/BetterPromptme/skills
    emoji: 🧩
    requires:
      anyBins:
        - betterprompt
        - bp
    os:
      - linux
      - darwin
    install:
      - id: node
        kind: node
        package: betterprompt
        bins: [betterprompt, bp]
        label: Install BetterPrompt CLI (node)
---

## What it does

This prompt asks the AI to avoid giving advice and instead generate five probing, potentially uncomfortable self-reflection questions tailored to the user’s stated emotion and area of life. The outcome is a concise set of challenging prompts designed to surface hidden fears, assumptions, responsibilities, or desires that may be acting as the user’s real block, helping them move toward clearer understanding through introspection rather than solutions.

> For more installation instructions go to https://raw.githubusercontent.com/BetterPromptme/skills/refs/heads/main/betterprompt/SKILL.md to check out this skill.

## Inputs


### textInputs

Pass each text input using `--input <key>=<value>` flags.

| Variable key | Required? | Description | Defaults |
| --- | ---: | --- | --- |
| `EMOTION` | Required |  | (none) |
| `AREA_OF_LIFE` | Required |  | (none) |



### Models and options

This skill's modality is: **`text`**.

To discover which `model` values you can use (and which `options` keys/values are valid for each model), run:

```bash
betterprompt resources --models-only --json
```

Then filter the returned JSON array to entries where `modality` is `"text"`.

## How to run

### Step 1: Collect inputs

First, run `betterprompt resources --models-only --json` and filter to `modality: "text"` to discover valid models and available options:

```bash
betterprompt resources --models-only --json
```

Use only the models and option values that appear in the filtered results.

Then collect all inputs from the human:


- Required text inputs:
    - `EMOTION`
  - `AREA_OF_LIFE`
- Optional: model and options.
  - Present the human with the default model **`gpt-4.1-mini`** and its available options. Look up `gpt-4.1-mini` in the `betterprompt resources` output (filtered to modality `"text"`) and show its `availableOptions` as: `key: val1, val2 (default), val3  |  key2: ...`. Mark a value `(default)` if it matches these defaults: `{}`.
  - If the human does not specify, defaults are used: model `gpt-4.1-mini`, options `{}`. Other models from the resources call are also available.

If any required text input is missing, **ask the human for what's missing**. Do not assume or fabricate values.

### Step 2: Run via BetterPrompt CLI

Use the frontmatter's `name` as the positional argument (for this skill, use `show-me-the-questions-im-avoiding`).

Command form:

```bash
betterprompt generate show-me-the-questions-im-avoiding \
  [--input <key>=<value>] \
  [--model <model>] \
  [--options <options JSON>] \
  [--json]
```

Notes:

- Pass each text input as a separate `--input <key>=<value>` flag.
- If the human does **not** mention a model, **omit** `--model` and BetterPrompt will use the default model: **`gpt-4.1-mini`**.
- If the human does **not** mention options, **omit** `--options` and BetterPrompt will use the default options: **`{}`**.
- If the run times out, the response will include a `runId` you can use to fetch the result later.

Example (using defaults shown above):

```bash
betterprompt generate show-me-the-questions-im-avoiding \
  --input EMOTION=<value> \
  --input AREA_OF_LIFE=<value> \
  --model gpt-4.1-mini \
  --options '{}'
```